Help!!! How can I resolve conflicts? frankly speaking, I still can't follow some of the instructions below, but they're really encouraging ^_^
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1. Take a deep breath for several times till you finally calm down. This can help you control your feelings and get back to normal.

2. Don't accuse or throw tantrum to the person you're having conflict with, though he/she is in wrong. Don't ever see yourself as the right one coz it's in your own version.

3. Don't hurt him/her emotionally. Examples: being curt towards him/her, hypocritically ask others to dislike him as well.

4. Learn to accept him/her as who he/she is. Who knows his/her attitude which makes us scowl is actually his/her biggest flaw.

5. Take the initiative to apologize, though you may not be in wrong. Making the 1st move to say sorry is not something to be ashamed on. Instead, this shows how wise you are in handling matters.

6. If he/she still dislikes you despite all? Well...leave this to God. He will take care of everything.

Just remember...there's no such thing as 'unforgiving.' Be a new person who is free from all misleading conflicts!